Sharing is in vogue, as evidenced by phenomena such as car sharing and food sharing. The philosophy of sharing has also arrived in sex – with Wifesharing. Sharing a partner or wife in bed with another man – that’s the motto for men in this love game.
What is the attraction of wifesharing sex for many couples and how this method works in practice, we explain below. We also show how to find contacts for horny wifesharing adventures.
What is wifesharing?
Wifesharing is a special form of threesome. A (married) couple gets a second man for sexual intercourse. Thus, two men have sex with one woman – often at the same time.
The two men usually do not become intimate with each other, but both concentrate on fucking the lady.
The third person may be a friend with whom the couple meets for sex on a regular or one-time basis. However, some wifesharers also find it exciting to share a woman with a complete stranger.
What is important in wifesharing is that the sexual aspect is in the foreground. Feelings of affection between the woman and the second man are not desired.
Erotic pleasure for all involved
The sexual sharing game became popular in this country in the 1960s. From the beginning, the focus was on pleasure for both the male and female parts.
The woman can experiment sexually with other men without her partner becoming jealous. The man experiences erotic high pleasure when he watches his partner fucking another and penetrates her with him at the same time. For the second man it is a special sexual thrill to join in the intimate bedtime stories of a couple.
Many couples report positive wifesharing experiences in Internet forums – the practice often brings fresh momentum into a long-term relationship.
The addition of another man is probably the most common form of sharing, but the couple can also get several guys at the same time for sex. This allows the wife to experience especially long and extensive sexual intercourse.
Wife Sharing Rules
There are a few rules of conduct that should be followed when sharing your partner or wife with another man.
- Wifesharing only works if all parties involved are keen on this type of play. If a couple disagrees from the beginning, they should do without it (for the time being). If, for example, one of the partners is pushed, the whole thing will backfire.
- The second man should be chosen by the couple together. The woman must find him attractive, her partner should at least like him.
- Once you have agreed on a second man, you should talk to each other before the first sexual intercourse. In the process, you exchange information about your sexual preferences, desires and limits to prevent disappointments later on.
- Jealousy is taboo during erotic sharing. This does not only apply to the man. If the woman is shared with another, she must not fall in love with the lover. She must make every effort to ensure that feelings of jealousy cannot arise in the partner in the first place and that it always remains clear that she is “his” wife.
- Rules and boundaries should be established in advance and strictly adhered to by all parties involved. Feelings such as jealousy, shame or excessive demands can also arise spontaneously and should then be communicated directly.
- Sex should always take place with protection. Especially if the couple does not know the third person personally.
- If a couple has no Wifesharing experience yet, the “first time” should be approached cautiously. What you imagine to be great in your imagination, can be hard to bear in reality. In this case, you can arrange a save date in advance. If this falls, all parties should stop the act immediately.
- Discretion and decency is expected from all three participants, but especially from the second man. For example, if the couple invites him to their home in the marital bed, an intimate and private place.
Cuckolding – the submissive wifesharing variant
Cuckolding is often mentioned in connection with wifesharing. However, there are clear differences between the two types of play.
In the former, the man is actively involved in the action and fucks his partner together with another man. All three should have fun fucking here. In cuckolding, on the other hand, the partner is in the passive, submissive role. He watches as his wife enjoys herself with another guy.
Cuckolding is often used in the dominant field. The woman humiliates her husband by letting him fuck her while he watches powerlessly. Often the man involved is physically and sexually inferior to the cuckold, which intensifies the humiliation.
Some voyeuristically inclined men, even away from BDSM games, find it arousing to passively watch their partner have sex with another man.
Find wifesharing contacts
If you already know people who are open to the principle of “wife sharing”, you can approach them about it in confidence and ideally join forces directly. However, most men and couples are likely to lack such contacts with whom they can easily realize their sharing fantasy.
Remedy can be found on the Internet. To find people for erotic sharing, it is best to register in a wifesharing forum. Many sex forums offer their own sections or groups on this topic, for example the Joyclub.de forum. There you can exchange ideas with like-minded people and arrange for wifesharing meetings. In addition to forums, some portals are also suitable for sex meetings and sex contacts.
When searching online for contacts to share wife, you can increase your chances of success:
- With a fully completed profile and a polite tone in the chat.
- You should upload an attractive photo of yourself – as a couple, of course, with the faces of both partners.
- As a solo man, it is best to search directly for open-minded couples and not for profiles of women. Very few sharing women create their own profile, through which they then look for men for sex with themselves plus husband.
Wifesharing Porn
The topic of “sharing wives” is also increasingly being taken up in porn. Numerous porn tube sites feature sex videos in which wifesharing scenes have been recreated by amateurs or real sessions have been filmed live.
Often, the clips were recorded by the woman’s partner himself. Accordingly, the uploads on the porn platforms are often titled from a first-person perspective (“My Wife got fucked” or similar).
In the case of sharing dates, the parties involved should agree in advance when recording their sexual activities on video. Especially if the filmed material is to end up on the Internet.
